Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Update...

Thank you MzzLily & DJan. I appreciate your comments. We have however taken parenting classes and have given the class graduation certificates to srs and the judge for copies...We have done everything they asked...

  • Random UAs
  • me go back to school
  • baby proof the house
  • have someone inspect the house
  • me go to therapy ever 2 weeks
  • us find a place of our own (we are buying Nate's rents house)
  • send weekly paystubs for proof of income and that we can support our family
  • have a list of everything we have for Tucker
  • have a room set up for Tucker
  • be to every visit, every other weekend
  • be to every court date
  • give monthly budgets
  • save and send every reciept we spend a dime on
  • Pay $225/month child support.....and the list goes on.

We have jumped through every hoop and have gotten basically no where. And yes, we have an attorny...who is basically worthless.

I spoke with my mother today, I kindly let her know that I didn't trust her & I knew some of the things she was up to in tryin to skrew us out of having Tucker. She kept trying to deny it as usual and like her normal self, twist my words and cause an argument....however, she didn't succeed. I just kept telling her that I didn't want to talk about it and soon she just stoped talking to me all together.

Nate and I have decided that we will no longer go up on Saturday nights and stay the night at her house to have more time with Tucker since we can't have our 'unsupervised visit' till Sundays anyway. We will leave Sunday mornings, drive the 3 hours to get him, take him out to eat, shop & play, and take him back to moms and head home. That way we have minimal time around her and she has less that she can twist or use against us.

As for myself. Today, I have de-stressed a lot...I could have a lot more, but I didn't have too much to do. I could have worked on the quilt, but I am afraid I will run out of fabric so I will wait until Friday when we buy more, and continue to work on it this weekend or next week. My soap supplies should be here within the next few days, so that is killing me on waiting for. haha. I will immediatly start making them so I can set them up online and start selling...And of course, you will be the first to know! I looked around today and have found another idea for an item. I will try my hand in Pincushion Jars. I will begin ordering the stuff for that on Friday also...

Besides all that, I will get off here for now. I will leave a post tomarrow...Thank you all again and I hope you are having a better time in life right now than I am...

1 Comment:

  1. Lillian Robinson said...
    Maybe you're worrying too much. It sounds like you've done a tremendous amount to prove you are a good mother. There are probably many out there that couldn't do what you've done. Try to keep it cool with your mother. I know it's hard, but losing it with her will not help get Tucker back.

    Work on the quilt! If you run out, you run out... It might help you relax. I'll be praying for you peace of mind. Keep us posted.

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